When you're unsure on how to find success:
1. Know where you are
2. Start with the end in mind.
Imagine you were lost and were using a map. You first need to know where you are and where the destination is before you can find the best route.
The same goes with success.
Get clear on where you want to go and where you are now.
This really depends person to person, even if the destination is the same.
Role modeling is the fastest way to success, but don't be too hard on yourself when you don't get things fast enough.
If you feel stuck or focused envying others, know that we're all in different chapters of life, have different array of skills, and may need to do things in a different order.
A lot of people get upset give up after comparing themselves to others without realizing the cards we're dealt, the effort behind the scenes put in, and the circumstances of the other person.
Make sure you don't give up too soon, there's a lot of potential in each an every one of us. Someone out there is looking for help that you can provide and give them.